Honor who you are, a child of God!You are a magnificent being worthy of love, respect, and prosperity and never settle for less than that.Make choices and decisions based upon those principles.Who you are matters; what you believe is your reality; what you have to say is valuable.Do not allow anyone to tell you otherwise. By accepting the way others treat you in life, you are accepting a belief about yourself. You are accepting that you are or you are not important enough.
There is a purpose for your being here, for your life.Own that belief. You are a gift, a blessing to the world.You have so much to give; just give it.Give it now, not later, not tomorrow, but right now. It may just be a smile or a kind word, a helping hand. Whatever someone else may need at this moment is your gift to him or to her and to yourself. Each one of us makes a difference in the lives we touch.It is up to us to give, to open our heart and to honor that feeling of just wanting to help.It is in giving from the heart that we always receive.
When we learn to honor that magnificent being whom we are, when we learn to stand up for ourselves, when we learn that we are valuable, that we are worthy of respect, we are worthy of loving ourselves unconditionally, we can’t help but to love and to treat others the same way.
You know the choices you have to make in life; you know the people and the circumstances from whom or from which you have to walk away.Love yourself enough to make those choices and to honor them, no matter what.
There is always a way.Believe in yourself. Believe in whom you are and always believe that you are worthy of excellence.Treat everyone and everything the way in which you would want to be treated.Be magnificent.
Letting go of limiting beliefs, patterns that no longer serve me, fears, lack, disconnection, insecurities about who I am.
Letting go and letting God!Closing doors, chapters in my life …saying final good bys to all that was and no longer is needed.
I am experiencing a tremendous sense of connection, knowingness inside of me, and a unity with Source Energy.I am awakening to the believe, the experience, the knowing that Source is all there is.
It is a certainty about my purpose; my life mission…this feeling is so powerful.Every moment, every space is filled with Divine Intelligence.
I have built a wall of steel, a wall of resistance. My wall protects me. It keeps me from getting hurt…it keeps me from feeling LOVE! Somehow, I run from love. It’s scary and hurtful - or at least I believe it is.
The principle here is that, in order to tear down my wall, I have to first take a good look at it. To understand my wall, I explore, experience and feel it. Only when I fully admit that the wall’s there can I get rid of it. I must learn to be patient with my wall. After all, it took me a long time and many experiences to build it! I also can learn to enjoy the process of letting go and fully committing to this change, no matter what. I choose to be open to change, so that I can experience the process of creation. I’ll get rid of the wall in a short time, so why not enjoy the process?
My steel wall was created around relationships, specifically my relationship with myself.I grew so attached to and comfortable with avoiding my feelings and judging myself for all the things I was doing wrong - at least from my point of view.At some point I began to just pretend.I pretended I had the perfect life, that everything about me was just perfect, even as inside I hurt so bad and felt so empty.
The only issue is that feeling that way created a vibration that attracted people in my life that felt exactly the same way about themselves.By denying and refusing to acknowledge the part of myself that I judged and didn’t like, all I accomplished was keeping it alive by feeding it.
Once I came to terms and owned the part of me I had denied for so long, I was able to finally experience my wall to then start the process of tearing it down.Owning my wall was not easy.I had to look at myself in the mirror and accept feelings kept hidden for so long and judged as bad or wrong.
I now own that people who are in my space, in my life, are only there because of the way I feel.What I love in others is simply what I love and accept about myself.In the same way, what I hate and criticize in others is simply what I refuse to accept and own in myself.
The world and everyone in it is a reflection of me.I will only see in others what I feel inside of me.It’s impossible to experience something different than what I am feeling myself.As soon as I owned this truth, I took the first step to collapsing my wall.
Just like you, I’ve had a mind conditioned for so many years to accept beliefs delivered by culture, beliefs about who I am and how I should be.This day, I receive a miracle, a gift.I face and let go of yet another very profound belief, a belief carried deep inside my subconscious mind for many years (perhaps all my life) that I no longer believe is true: I need a man to take care of me.
I finally understand that having a belief in my subconscious mind means I’m putting that vibration out there to get the response I receive. All my life, I’ve attracted insecure men who believe a woman needs a man to take care of her.
Universal Laws are perfect; you attract who you are in your experience.And your experience is a result of what you have chosen and accepted to be true.Through my experiences of abuse and through life experiences in general, I formed a belief that the only way I could be successful in life was through a man.
Lately though, as my awareness level expands, I realize I am no longer comfortable with owning that way of thinking.I have started to own the new belief that I am a brilliant being, capable of taking care of myself, worthy of much and not needy of a man to take care of me.I am a very successful business woman, creative and talented with a lot to offer. I just could not see those gifts I’d been blessed with.
I am an inspiration to others, because I challenge life and confront paradigms and a belief system I no longer wish to accept.With the courage to confront my past, step by step I’ve made peace and let it go.I have stood strong with unwavering faith, asking for guidance and listening, seeking further, asking for help and more importantly, open to receive it.
Every day I take a step further to experiencing the joy, love, happiness and prosperity – those blessings of a life that have always been within me. I just could not see it because I was focused on the negative aspect of my life, on some of the scars and the old feelings life had marked me with.Not always could I see the greatness in every aspect of my life.
This is where most of us get stuck.Whenever we get hurt in life, whenever we experience discomfort, we begin to own negative feelings.Unwittingly, we feed energy to them by not wanting to experience them.We just don’t realize that the more we focus on not wanting something as part of our future experience, the more life we give it and the more we attract it to us.
This is why I have made it a habit to look for the blessing in every situation, person and circumstance.Every experience brings a gift; all we have to do is open ourselves to it. Every moment I take a step further, believing that I am here to enjoy this precious life. Life will only bring me what I believe I deserve!
As I look at my family and the blessing they are in my life, I also see how influential they are today in my beliefs about who I am.I don’t blame them or hold them responsible;I clearly understand they have done the best they were able with their own belief system.I also understand it is up to me to challenge those beliefs and to take responsibility for the person I am today, for the person I choose to be.
The change is always within me, never outside of me.Every moment I believe and understand more and more that I create who I am by changing the belief system about who I am – which means I ask the question:Who do I choose to be?An inspiration to the world?A powerful and creative writer people connect with?A successful and financially independent business woman? An amazingly loving partner and an excellent mother? An unconditional friend?
I was alone, close to the top of Stone Mountain, Georgia, totally in tune with and enjoying nature all around me, when fear and panic paralyzed my mind and body.Reminding myself to breathe and remember my favorite affirmation, I managed to work through the fear of being alone, without anyone to help or rescue me.
This experience helped me see just what an amazing human being I am.I also courageously confronted the one person I had been afraid to confront…me!
After, as I sat on a rock and contemplated on the experience, I felt an indescribably connection to all of life, with pure love and awareness.This life-changing experience will remain with me forever, especially in moments of self doubt.
I rested in the power of the moment until the need to push upward appeared.I got up and started to move forward, aware of feeling driven to reach the top.If I didn’t make it to the very top, I would not have accomplished my purpose.I would not be able to consider the walk (or myself) a success.
All of a sudden, I started laughing at myself as I realized my thoughts.Making it to the top of the mountain would prove absolutely nothing.The only reason to do that would be to simply enjoy the pleasure of the experience, nothing more…no other reason.Pleasure and joy were my goals.
I didn’t have to prove anything to myself or to anyone else.The only reason to do in life is just simply because I want to, because it comes from my heart…or else there is just no meaning at all.
In this moment on the mountain, I vowed to start making life choices that feel good and come directly from my heart, that are in alignment with whom I am.Being my True Self, a better and happier person, is the best way to make a difference.
I never reached the top of the mountain.I went as far as I felt comfortable and enjoyed.I spent an entire day at the amazing park in Stone Mountain, enjoying the stunning view and blending with nature, truly one of the happiest days of my life.In the end, the only thing that mattered was my experience of the journey.
On my way down, I felt the delicious sense of lightness, the absence of fear and the joy of being just who I am, with my own wonderful mix of strengths and weaknesses, virtues and faults.
